feat(1.96): update patches and build process (#2131)

include_osx.gypi

@@ -0,0 +1,11 @@
+{
+  'target_defaults': {
+    'conditions': [
+      ['OS=="mac"', {
+        'xcode_settings': {
+          'OTHER_CPLUSPLUSFLAGS': ['-std=c++20']
+        }
+      }]
+    ]
+  }
+}