fix(1.100): update patches and use node 20.19 (#2345)

dev/patch.sh

@@ -38,6 +38,10 @@ else
 fi
 
 if [[ -f "${FILE}" ]]; then
+  if [[ -f "${FILE}.bak" ]]; then
+    mv -f $FILE{.bak,}
+  fi
+
   git apply --reject "${FILE}" || true
 fi
 

dev/update_patches.sh

@@ -19,6 +19,10 @@ check_file() {
     shift
   done
 
+  if [[ -f "${1}.bak" ]]; then
+    mv -f $1{.bak,}
+  fi
+
   if [[ -f "${1}" ]]; then
     echo applying patch: "${1}"
     if ! git apply --ignore-whitespace "${1}"; then